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the lot of African women under what has been patent patriarchal domination for
years on end? Or specifically the plight of Moslem women in the continent? Of
course this work excellently deals with this, and has rightly been considered
something of a masterpiece for decades now. The author- now late- knew the
subject matter inside out, and her 'long letter ' here to a female friend lays
everything bare. How does a woman feel after being shoved aside by her husband for
a very young woman, one who could easily have been her own daughter in age?
What can a woman do? How does she bear the comprehensive humiliation? How does
she survive? How does she hold onto her own children - no longer kids - and
still endeavour to bring them up the right way? This magnificent work
illuminates all this with monumental empathy and pathos in its stride.
The author
is a superb writer, and introspective and quite blunt to boot. She is aware of
her status as an African woman who has had 12 children! But she is still very
much a woman. As she writes later on in this work, "...I said it
teasingly, rolling my eyes round. Eternal woman, even in mourning, you want to
make a strike, you want to seduce, arouse interest" . Her excellent
narrative certainly arouses our interest, which include the vagaries of her own
brood. We share her shock as she suddenly discovers one of her own daughter
smoking: "... A woman's mouth exhaling the acrid smell of tobacco instead
of being fragrant. A woman's teeth blackened with tobacco instead of
sparkling with whiteness' Despite her apparent broad-mindedness and stoic
approach, one cannot but wish our narrator all the best...

Hmmmm...food for thought. Can we really and truly appreciate women in Africa?
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